I like her, what should I do next now?

In December this girl who I think is very attractive gave me her number and she smiled and said 'Call me sometime', now I tried a couple of times but it just went to her voicemail but I gave up easily because there was another girl at work who I liked a lot so I chose her over this one.



Anyway, I gave up on the girl at work because she never committed to go out with me anywhere so I've been in a little contact with this girl that I met in December for about a month now. I thought I ****** it up last month with a text I sent (I sent one, then she replied and the 2nd one I sent was the ****** up one), about a week or so ago she liked a photo I was tagged in on facebook so a day or two later I texted her asking how she was and I didn't get anything back so I decided to leave it again. On Friday I saw her at work (85% positive it was her) and looked her in the eye but she didn't look happy at work and I didn't say anything, also I think she didn't recognise me (I've got fitter since December, changed my hair and glasses as well) but I gave up even more after that.



But Saturday Night she texted me last night saying my friend was wondering when I was going out next, now this friend met her with me in December at the same time but they have a lot of mutual friends in comparison so I'm guessing they were in a group of people going out to the city last night (She was tagged on facebook with one of her best friends so I know it wasn't just them two). Anyway I didn't get the text until about 30 minutes after she sent it and she tried to call me but I was in an underground club with no reception :( I sent a text back and tried to call but it went to voicemail which sucks lol but anyway I was already in the city so I think they were going to ask me to meet up with them which I would have.



I asked my mate tonight what was up and he said that she said to him that she was going to text me, I don't know much more than that but I'm probably going to call her soon to see what was up about last night and everything :) But even with this it'll probably go to voicemail but at least I haven't ****** it up :p My mate must know I like her but I haven't told him yet outright but if I talk to him again, I'll try to get more info.



Answer on I like her, what should I do next now?



just be yourself and be patient. Seems like you don't even know her well enough to go forward into something more deep. Be friends first I'd say - hang out, get to know her and if its going to happen it will :) Best of luck

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