I'm trying to save my marriage, can you please read this?

I’ve made a mistake and am trying to save my marriage. Three weeks ago someone emailed my husband a few pictures of me in Kawai at the beach during a weekend trip I took with a guy I recently had an affair with; that time I said I was visiting my cousin in Portland. Fortunately the photos were cell phone and were somewhat blurry so I was able to claim that it was not me in those pictures.



He wasn’t completely convinced but somehow he was not sure it was me. But then he has started going through all of my stuff. This week somehow he found out my email password, and after reading all my old emails he found a couple of emails from me to this guy whom I had the affair with, as well as other email with attached pictures of me in lingerie and naked which I sent to another guy that I met at the mall 7 months ago and whom I had a one night stand. (WHY at least I didn't delete those old emails?).



Obviously he is very upset, and threatening to leave. I'm a housewife and don't work. There is no way I'm going to be able to pay for a beautiful home myself without his income. I don't want to go living in a crappy apartment in a bad area, and can't digest the idea of going back to live with my parents again. How can I save my marriage? Help please!



And before you start telling me to go with my lovers, the guy from 7 months ago I didn't see him again he was not that great and he's from another state; I don't even know where he lives now. The guy whom I had an affair recently and went to Hawaii with, he's looking for a job and we wouldn't be capable of providing the right lifestyle I deserve. I don't have a great husband in many ways, but he has his own company which is very profitable, and it would be very hard to find someone with such a deep pocket again. But he has gained a lot of weight since we got married; refuses to diet and I don't feel like I lust for him anymore.



Answer on I'm trying to save my marriage, can you please read this?



sounds like you two have a business deal...if that's your pic...you are a trophy wife...and you will always be getting attention from men with your looks...so down playing your sexy looks may help him to feel more secure..the Q is...can you give up the need for attention from men and can you be happy with only him? Happy meaning faithful.

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